The Early Years and Family Expansion

Taylor Frankie Paul, known for her role in The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives, and her former husband, Tate Paul, began their journey together in 2016. The couple welcomed two children into their family during their marriage: their daughter, Indy, born in 2017, and their son, Ocean, who arrived in 2020.


The “Soft Swinging” Controversy

Their marriage faced intense public scrutiny in 2022 following a widely publicized “soft-swinging” scandal. Taylor revealed in a livestream that she and Tate had a mutual arrangement allowing them to be intimate with other couples. However, the relationship dynamics shifted when Taylor allegedly violated the boundaries of their agreement, leading to their eventual separation and divorce.


Legal Troubles and Custody Disputes

Following their split, both parties faced significant challenges. Taylor’s subsequent relationship with Dakota Mortensen was marked by volatility, including a 2023 arrest for domestic violence. Taylor eventually pleaded guilty to aggravated assault, while other charges were dismissed.

The co-parenting arrangement has remained complex. In June 2026, Tate sought a temporary restraining order against Taylor and filed a petition to modify their custody agreement to obtain sole custody of their children. The court denied his emergency request, stating:

“The court cannot find an immediate and irreparable harm as contemplated by Rule 65A, and the motion is denied.”

Navigating Life After Divorce

Despite the legal friction, Taylor has previously spoken about moving forward. In 2024, she shared that she harbored no ill will toward her ex-husband, noting, “My ex is doing great as far as I know. I love him and his partner.” Tate has since remarried and shares a child with his new spouse, Bailey Paul.


Key Milestones in the Timeline

  • 2016: The couple ties the knot.
  • 2017–2020: The births of Indy and Ocean.
  • 2022: Public confirmation of the “soft-swinging” arrangement and subsequent breakup.
  • 2023: Taylor faces legal issues; Tate expresses concern regarding the children’s well-being.
  • 2026: Tate files for a temporary restraining order and a modification of custody; the request is denied by the court.

By mid-2026, tensions escalated further as Tate filed a motion for reconsideration following the initial denial of his restraining order. Taylor addressed the ongoing conflict on social media, expressing frustration regarding the difficulties of their co-parenting situation and the impact of these disputes on their children.